FAQ

Questions you might have.
Answered honestly.

If you are wondering whether coaching is right for you, these are the questions that come up most often. If something is not answered here, please get in touch directly.

About ADHD coaching

ADHD coaching is a structured, collaborative relationship focused on helping you understand how your neurotype shows up in your life — and building practical strategies that work with it rather than against it.

It is not therapy. It does not diagnose, treat, or work with trauma. The focus is forward-looking: where you are now, where you want to get to, and what is getting in the way. A coach works alongside you to understand your patterns, challenge unhelpful narratives, and develop tools that are genuinely tailored to how you function.

For late-diagnosed adults in particular, coaching often starts with something simpler than strategy — the relief of being understood, and the permission to see yourself differently.

Therapy — particularly CBT or psychotherapy — tends to focus on the past, on mental health conditions, and on healing. Coaching focuses on the present and future: where you are, where you want to be, and how to get there.

Coaching does not work with clinical conditions, diagnose, or treat mental health issues. It is not a substitute for therapy and is not suitable for people in acute mental health crisis.

For many people, coaching and therapy are complementary rather than alternatives. If you are currently working with a therapist or psychiatrist, coaching can sit alongside that work rather than replace it.

If you are unsure whether coaching or therapy is the right next step, that is worth talking through. Feel free to get in touch and we can have an honest conversation about what might suit your situation.

No. A formal diagnosis is not a requirement for coaching. Many people arrive at coaching while on a waiting list for assessment, or having self-identified with ADHD traits but not yet pursued a diagnosis, or simply knowing that something about how they process and function is different — even if no label has been formally applied.

Coaching works with how you actually experience your life, not with a diagnostic category. That said, if you are considering seeking a formal assessment, a coach can also help you understand what that process involves and what it might mean for you.

Coaching is currently an unregulated profession in the UK — meaning anyone can legally call themselves a coach without any training or qualification. This is worth knowing when choosing who to work with.

Beyond Linear is committed to working within recognised professional and ethical frameworks for ADHD coaching. Full accreditation details will be published here as the qualification process completes. In the meantime, if you have questions about training, approach, or professional standards, please ask directly — those are entirely reasonable questions and deserve a straight answer.

How sessions work

Each session is 60 minutes. They follow a consistent structure: a check-in on how the week has been, a review of anything agreed last time, a main focus section where the real work happens, and a close where you identify what you are taking away.

Sessions are held online or face to face within the South East Wales area. The pace, focus, and depth are shaped by what you bring — not a fixed curriculum. If something significant has happened in the week, the session flexes around it.

Read a full walkthrough of how a session is structured →

The first session is about orientation. You do not need to prepare anything or arrive with a plan. It is a chance to start mapping how your neurotype shows up in your life — in work, relationships, and the everyday patterns that have been hard to explain.

Many people find the first session brings a significant sense of relief — the experience of being understood quickly, sometimes for the first time, without having to justify or explain themselves at length.

You are not expected to have it all figured out. You just need to start where you are.

By the end of the first session you will have a clearer sense of what the coaching relationship could focus on and whether it feels like the right fit.

There is no fixed answer to this — it depends entirely on what you want to work on and how the relationship develops. Some clients work through a structured block of six sessions and find that gives them what they need. Others continue with ongoing sessions over a longer period.

A six-session block has a natural arc — building understanding, developing tools, addressing specific challenges, and consolidating what has shifted. It is a good starting point for most people.

Sessions are typically weekly or fortnightly. The frequency is agreed between you and Gemma based on what works for your life and goals.

Life happens — particularly when you have ADHD. Rescheduling is straightforward with reasonable notice. A cancellation policy will be confirmed at the start of the coaching relationship so there are no surprises.

Missing a session does not derail the work. The coaching relationship is built to be flexible enough to accommodate real life — that is rather the point.

Is this right for me?

A recent diagnosis brings a complicated mix of relief, grief, and questions. You do not need to have processed it fully before starting coaching — in fact, coaching can be a useful space to make sense of what the diagnosis means for you and how it reframes your history.

There is no "right time" to start. Some people find coaching most useful in the weeks immediately after diagnosis, when everything is shifting and they want support making sense of it. Others wait until the initial adjustment has settled.

The honest answer is: if you are curious about whether it might help, a conversation costs nothing and commits you to nothing.

Because the systems were probably not built for how your brain actually works. Most productivity advice is designed for neurotypical brains. It assumes consistent motivation, linear task completion, and a relationship with time that ADHD simply does not support.

ADHD coaching does not hand you a system and send you away to follow it. It works with you to understand the specific ways your executive function operates — and builds approaches around that reality rather than against it. The goal is not compliance with a system. It is finding what actually works for you.

The difference is that coaching is built around how you function — not how you think you should.

High-functioning at work and struggling privately is one of the most common presentations in late-diagnosed adults — particularly women. The professional performance is often real. So is the cost of sustaining it.

The question is not whether you are managing. It is what it takes to manage, and whether that is sustainable. Many clients arrive performing strongly by all external measures while quietly exhausted, frequently overwhelmed at home, and aware that something about the way they are operating is not right.

Needing support is not a measure of how much you are or are not coping. It is a recognition that there might be a better way.

Absolutely. Many people arrive at coaching having recognised something of themselves in ADHD descriptions without a formal diagnosis or even certainty that ADHD is the right frame. That is fine.

The coaching conversation starts from where you actually are — the patterns you have noticed, the challenges that keep showing up, the gap between what you know you are capable of and what it currently costs to get there. A diagnosis is not required for that conversation to be useful.

Practical questions

Pricing will be published on the site shortly. In the meantime, please get in touch to discuss investment — there is no obligation in having that conversation.

Some clients may be eligible for financial assistance. This is also worth raising when you make contact.

Sessions are held online via video call, which means they are accessible from anywhere. Face to face sessions are also available within the South East Wales area for those who prefer to meet in person.

The format — online or in person — is agreed at the start of the coaching relationship and can be flexible depending on what suits you week to week.

Yes. Everything discussed in coaching sessions is held in confidence. Beyond Linear takes privacy seriously and your information will not be shared with any third party without your explicit consent.

A full privacy policy is available here. If you have specific questions about how information is handled, please ask directly before starting.

Possibly — and it is worth asking. Many organisations fund professional coaching for employees, particularly at senior levels, and an increasing number are specifically investing in neurodiversity support. Some clients have had coaching funded through their employee assistance programme, a learning and development budget, or a reasonable adjustments process.

If you would like support making the case to your employer, this is something that can be discussed as part of the initial conversation.

Ask it. Use the contact form or email hello@beyondlinear.co.uk directly. There is no question too basic or too specific. A straight answer is always better than uncertainty getting in the way of a decision.

Still not sure? Just ask.

An initial conversation costs nothing and commits you to nothing. Tell Gemma where you are and she will give you an honest answer about whether coaching is the right next step.

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